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Men ,Sex and lust

January 24, 2011


I am too stunned to comment on the news that appeared in today’s newspaper



God! Can’t these perverts see beyond their over simulative libido?

Is the need to satisfy the sexual urge so strong that they cannot even wait for a mature woman?

That means they can go to any limit (read take even infants) to satiate their lust (that means even animals will do )

This is not an example in isolation

Few days back there was a news item

“Father arrested for raping daughter” )

the list is endless of such incidences

“A 35-year-old man from Chembur was arrested for raping and sodomising a 10-month-old infant. The accused, Ramkisan Surajmal Harijan, a resident of Mankhurd-Ghatkopar Link Road, took the baby away on Tuesday night on the pretext of babysitting her after which he raped her. “

Child abuse cases in city on the rise – The Times of India


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all these incidences force one to think

What was the compelling factor except for their overactive libido which forced these men to become worse than animals?

Why couldn’t they control their sexual desires?

Is the sexual urge in these men so strong that they loose control over their thinking ability and the power to differentiate between children and adults?

Is there a way out to stop the victimization of innocent children by the hands of such perverts?







7 Comments leave one →
  1. January 24, 2011 10:38 pm

    Such crimes are not a result of normal sexual urge, these men are sick and need treatment. Castration seems like a solution.

    Rape is rarely about men finding a woman/other victim attractive, it’s about power or perversion/mental sickness. It is dangerous to let the myth of rape is a result of a sudden impulse (e.g. saying that the rapist could not resist the provocatively dressed woman) – most (more than 70 %) rapes happen where the rapist is know to the victim and knows he has a chance of getting away with his crime. A helpless, poor dalit – fully clothed is more likely to be raped than a powerful and connected woman wearing tight jeans.

    • June 23, 2011 11:48 am

      Can’t agree more to this! You got the bull’s eye.

      In the words of journo Mrs. Mrinal Pande “Son of a bitch is better than son of a man”

  2. January 24, 2011 10:54 pm

    Hi Anju, as a boy I can never deny the fact, yes I have high sexual urge for a women and that is not only true for me but almost true for every man present on planet. Whenever I see any girl with something less on body though I may be in calm condition all my sexual urges get up. But I also don’t deny the fact I’ll never do anything that is shameful to hide my face behind name of sex. In fact I believe sex is very beautiful but when done with a person you love. Please never think that a man having strong sexual desire can never love someone. Love and sex are two different things, though I have so strong sexual desire I ‘ll never go and have sex with another women just because she looks sexier than the girl I love no matter even she thinks I am not more than a sexual animal. Not only me but there are several guys who just keep their sexual desires in control just because they are more in need of love than sex. I don’t know why some people go mad and make children victim of sexual abuse, because I’ll never even think to do something like that to any girl next door because I have even left my girl untouched just because she don’t want me to touch her, so far as I can think if a person like me with so strong desire for sex can keep himself away from sex I doubt why others do that. I guess stopping nudity on name of fashion may solve problem just because there’s no way you can keep a boy away from his sexual desire. Might hurt every women but there’s no bitter truth than this I have to tell you. Sorry for that.

  3. January 24, 2011 11:03 pm

    These incidences have nothing to do with a powerful sexual urge. As a man, I like to think I have a healthy sex drive, but I could never sexually abuse a two year old kid! Someone who does that is mentally unstable and is hardly representative of either men, or a strong libido.

  4. January 24, 2011 11:15 pm

    This is not their physical urge , it is their urge to show dominance over a woman.
    They show it using their physical strength under conditions where the girl/woman cannot retaliate back!!

    It must be either mental instability or over the border male chauvnism.

  5. January 25, 2011 2:48 pm

    I don’t know what to say as both are incomplete without each other but these news made us feel ashamed of being so called male.

    Just because of few such cases u can’t generalise the things and dominance should not come into the picture in this 21st century.

    Psycho ppl r always there but don’t evaluate everyone in same weighting machine. many male r there whom u will adore like anything. Abul kalam, sachin, Amitabh, Atal Bihari to name a few

  6. A.J permalink
    February 6, 2011 4:30 am

    This has nothing to do with men women or dominance of one sex over other.
    This and other men like him needs serious medical assistance or probably sentence behind bars for as long as they can breath.

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