What will people say? LOG KYA KAHENGE?
A lady wants to change her style of dressing. She wants to start wearing jeans instead of saris but she is worried ——?
A wife who is regularly abused by her husband wants to severe the matrimonial ties because she is unable to bear the continuous humiliation, BUT is scared of doing so —————-?
Daughter wants to go in for an inter caste marriage with a boy of her own choice; the parents know that her selection of boy is good but they are hesitant——–?
The parents know that their daughter is being ill treated by her in laws and her life has become hell. They want to bring her back from that atmosphere but ——————–?
Daughter or son is still unmarried. Parents are worried ——————-?
Marriage for middle aged people is mostly unheard of in our society (it is nothing new in other countries) . What is wrong if a middle aged widow couple decides to get married at a late age but their children are worried —————-?
There are innumerable situations where we are stopped from doing what our heart desires and which will ultimately give us happiness and satisfaction just, because we are worried about WHAT WILL PEOPLE /SOCIETYSAY?
Who are these people/society?
Isn’t the society made of us? Aren’t we the people?
Then why do we worry so much about the people?
It is such an ironical situation. Human beings have the tendency to comment on other’s behavior but when it comes to them they do not like when others comment?
Actually it is very easy for any third person to say – forget about society, do not bother about others. Do what you think is right.
But I am sure when the same situation will come in the life of this third person he will also start worrying about society and people.
I fail to understand why should anyone comment on another person’s life, style or behavior? What right others have to interfere in others life? And what sadistic pleasure will they derive from commenting on others misfortune or problems.
The so called society/people will not come to the rescue of the sufferer; they will not offer any practical help to others. The only thing these people can offer is lip service which will be of no use to the other person.
In fact it is the habit of most of the people to poke their nose in other’s affairs and lives. Although they have nothing to do with them but may be for time pass or for sheer pleasure of gossip or to humiliate the other person they will talk about the life of others
Why does public opinion, approval take precedence over personal happiness?