daughters not safe with fathers?
Father arrested for raping daughter shouts todays TOI
This is not an isolated case
In the last 15 days three similar news have appeared in leading dailies.
Last week it was the case of a minor girl who was subjected to this humiliation by her cousin and his friends.
Few months back it was the father raping his daughter for 5-6 months in a row so that his financial condition could improve (some astrologer had given him the idea)
Innumerable cases of fathers, brothers sexually molesting their own kith and kin.
In one case the father used to pamper, over indulge, shower all his love and affection, be extra loving to his daughter in front of public and used to expect her to be an ideal daughter . He even forbade her to talk to boys, go out with friends least she became an extrovert. ( I am sure he would have been scared of the fact that the girl may spill out the beans about his acts).
I have expressed my feelings on the same subject before also. but I cannot just control myself after reading about such cases.
I know my writing is neither going to save such victims nor it is going to effect the so called fathers and brothers who are a blot on such divine relations
but again and again I am forced to think
Do the men have no control over their libido?
Does the urge to satisfy their sexual needs are so powerful that it overpowers their moral values, their senses?
How can these men force themselves on their own blood relations?
How can men take advantage of innocent, minor still in budding stage girls?
And how come the wives, the mother do not come to know about this?
In one case the father was indulging in such perverted acts with the permission of his wife ( how shameful!)
How could the mother allow her own husband to sexually molest his own daughter?
Does it mean it is not safe to leave one’s daughters with their fathers and brothers?
What happened to paternal and brotherly instincts and love?
Do they ever think how many scars such acts will be left on the victims of such harassment?
How will the future life of the victims shape up?
Don’t these people ever feel guilty of their shameful acts?
my helplessness is beyond words
I feel sorry for such girls who are being forced to silently bear the burnt of the sadistic urges of their fathers/brothers.
Why can’t the neighbors, relatives publicly humiliates such persons by blackening their faces or by taking such drastic measures so as to teach a lesson to the sadistic minded men.