Its been years since i logged on to this page. Just do not know what happened and I lost all interest in writing which was my life line once upon a time.
I used to literally breathe my blog. I was so passionate about writing that all my waking hours were spent in thinking about the topics to write.
Was the negative comments from some ones as to “who will read what I am writing, or such a waste of time or No one is interested in reading what I write or its just sheer nonsense” demotivated me or something other. But the fact remains that I stopped writing and expressing my views
Then suddenly the life came to a standstill. I carried on with my daily life.
and today out of the blue moon I just thought of visiting my own page and
Voila 🙂 i am here as if arisen from ashes
I cannot believe that i was alive for all these years. Or was I really breathing or just posing to be alive. 🙂
but whatever may be , I am here once again to stay.
I wish myself all the best .
Disclaimer I have no intention to hurt any one’s feelings or sentiments
While talking to one old widower and another old widow, the idea of this post came
Most of the ladies love and pamper their husbands to no limits, they take care of him (husband),look after his medicines, keep an eye on his movements, monitor his intake of foods, help him select his clothes etc etc. control his cholesterol, sugar , force him to go for walks . In general the wife makes the husband totally dependent on her.
They will rush home after any outing – “he must have come home, I have to give him his tea “
The wife always says “I want to die before my husband, Suhagan marna chahti hu”.
Has she ever thought that if she dies before the husband who will take care of him once she goes? She has made him so much dependent on her, rather made him handicapped to the extent that he will not take his medicine on his own.
Doesn’t she realize that once she dies the husband will be left alone with no one to take care of him, give him medicines?
How can the same woman who can’t bear the thought of leaving her husband alone for a single day think about leaving him for a lonely life without her?
Actually the best solution to save the old couples from depression because of death of the partner,is that the couple should die together so that no one suffers the loneliness, the feeling of left alone, the isolation and the depression
IF INSULTING IS MADE PUNISHABLE
Just imagine what would happen if insulting was made a crime and punishable ?let me list all those who will be behind the bars or who will be punished
- All the husbands for insulting their wives at every given chance.
- Rest of the men for insulting women by abusing them (verbally as well as physically).
- All those political leaders who insult the faith reposed on them by public.
- All those friends who insult friendship by cheating on them.
- All those children who insult their parents.
- All those parents who insults their children by their sarcastic comments or expect much more from their children than they are capable of doing.
- All those citizens who insult our legal system by violating the laws.
- All those people who insult our religious values by talking against any particular religion or misusing the religious places.
- All those women who insult women hood by indulging in acts which are demeaning to all the women
- All those beggars who insult the emotions of philanthropists by presenting a false sob story and taking alms from them.
The list is unending
If all these people are punished, our judiciary and legal system will have a tough time by putting them behind the bars
BUT the question is who will punish the insulters?
The law makers, the reformers, the judiciary themselves insult the legal system, rules and regulations.
So if there is no one to impart punishment what is the alternative?
Go on getting insulted and go on insulting others ????????????????
P.S can you add more categories of people who insult others?
i am at loss for words after reading this
CAIRO: An Islamic cleric residing in Europe said that women should not be close to bananas or cucumbers, in order to avoid any “sexual thoughts
one single slap but a powerful , shows people are getting tired of our netas
this is just the beginning, aagey aagey dekho kya hota hai
jaag raha hai India
but some people don’t think so. they think that the slap should not have taken place
The slap — is it justifiable? every one has his own views.
I do concede that slapping an elderly figure is wrong, but try to imagine the frustration of sufferers, the victims of bad politics, the helplessness of common man, the circumstances that motivated this extreme step.
The act may have been wrong but the intention behind it shows that now the common man will not blindly follow the leaders.
They are slowly opening their eyes, they are slowly but steadily realizing their rights, and they are gradually gearing up enough energy to raise their voice against exploitation and bad politics.
For how long can we tolerate our corrupt political system?
This Royal slap should not be taken as an initiation for many more such to follow.
But it should be taken as the alarm for the leaders, it should be treated as warning signal
It should generate fear in our well established political system and our leaders.
It should give a jolt to them and they should realize that a new era with a brighter sun is emerging,
They should become alert that the AAM JANATA is all set to become KHAS and they will not let any one (be it an elderly man or some regal personality ) rule over and take them for granted.
Today’s generation is ready to respect the elders but the elders should by their conduct earn that respect.
What is important is that the Acts and not the age should be respected
AAJ KI JANATA is all set to fight for their rights.
They are awakening from their slumber.
I know eavesdropping is bad manners and uncultured but one cannot avoid overhearing other’s conversation while travelling in public transport and I admit to my guilt of eavesdropping
Following are some of my musings after eavesdropping a conversation between two women travelling in a local transport
Are men specially created by God?
Can they never do any wrong?
What is that special quality which the men have which makes them feel that they are superior to women?
What is that special quality which makes men treat women like door mat?
What is the unique thing in men that makes men ill treat women?
What is so special in men that inspite or the humiliation, insults, abuse which they subject their women to, they still get respect, concern and obedience from women?
Why do most of the men always blame the women for any crisis/calamity /financial loss/ downs in the career/mishappenings/family disputes?
Are the men always right?
Don’t they have any responsibility towards family?
Why is that any thing good is because of the husbands and any thing which is not favorable is the doing of the women?
Does the principles of life after death, Paap and Punya, Hell and heaven doesn’t apply to men?
Does the philosphy of “BURA KAROGE TO BURA MILEGA” not applicable to men?
Are they not scared that they will have to suffer for the deeds of this birth in their next birth?
Why do women silently tolerate this inhumane behavior?
Is it because of fear of society/family/financial security/future of children/they enjoy the insults/or they have just got used to this attitude and have given in to the situation
What will happen if the women gear up and enough courage to get up and say
“Thanks for giving me the chance to find someone better that you”
A heart touching line told by a woman to her husband
“I do not hate you but I have lost all the reasons to love you”
Watching a hindi serial and for a change it is showing harsh reality of life—parents go to any extent to give love and fulfill all wishes of children and they want their children to love them but the same parents forget that they also have their parents who expect the same from them. Why this contradiction? People want their children to love, respect them but the same parents become a stranger to their own parents
Reminds me of a old story which my father used to tell me
Old father feeling cold so the son along with his wife asks his small son (grandson) to give a old tattered blanket to the grandfather
The small child tears the blanket into half and gives half to grandfather and tells his father that the other half is for him when he will become old
Why are we so selfish?
Parents want the best for their children; they feel proud at the smallest achievement of their children, they share sleepless nights with their children during exams or during the sickness of children
The same parents how can they just close their eyes, hearts and mind to the fact that even their own parents had been through the same drill when the second generation parents were young.
Do they think that they are the only parents in this earth who are concerned about their children? ?